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The Power of Habit

How to Turn a Resolution into a Habit

Dear Charles,

What does the science say about resolutions? Do they work? Every New Year I see my friends, coworkers, and relatives make resolutions—and then often follow through for as much as two weeks! And then, as we all know, they often fall back into their old habits. I’ve done the same thing myself—and so I’ve stopped making resolutions altogether. But maybe we’re all just doing it wrong. What can a person do to turn a resolution into a habit?


Dear Irresolute,

I get it. It’s common to lose hope when we try to make a change—and then find ourselves, after the first rush of excitement, falling back into our old ways. And changing an entrenched habit is hard—particularly the kinds of habits we all tend to target when a new year rolls around. We start January with big dreams. We’re going to eat better! And exercise more! And get on top of our finances! And willpower often sustains these ambitions for a while—but then, the kids go back to school, and the idea of running again (I went two days ago!) seems unfair, and we’re sick of dieting. And so our willpower falters. And then falters again. And eventually we give up. We’ve all been there. It’s okay.

A major misconception around habits is that willpower is the source of sustained change. It is easy to see others who have healthy, effective, rock-solid habits and assume they have unnatural reserves of self-discipline. But research has shown that willpower is like a muscle; it gets tired when exerted for extended periods of time. So, building new habits is less about grit and more about strategy. You’ll increase your chances of success by understanding how to break a habit into pieces—and then making a plan. Let me explain.

The Science Behind Habits

A habit is comprised of three parts: a cue, a routine, and a reward. The cue is the prompt, something that triggers you to do a routine. The routine is the behavior we commonly think of as the habit. And the reward is the payoff, the satisfaction we get from meeting some craving or need. These three components, when put together, are called The Habit Loop. And every habit follows it: cue, routine, reward; cue, routine, reward.

Become the Scientist and the Subject

It’s not hard to spot our habitual routines, but we’re generally unconscious of the cues and rewards that trigger and reinforce them.

For example, while writing The Power of Habit, I had a habit of eating a chocolate chip cookie every day. And this habit of eating a cookie was starting to affect my health. In fact, I had gained eight pounds, and my wife had begun to make pointed comments. I had tried to change this habit. But even the sticky note on my computer—“Don’t eat cookies!”—didn’t seem to deter me.

So, to change my cookie-eating habit, I first had to identify the cues and rewards. I got a journal and began recording what happened immediately before and after I ate the cookie—my thoughts, my feelings, things happening in my environment. I wasn’t yet trying to change my habit, rather, I just wanted to identify what was happening. After a few days, I discovered that my cue was the time of day. Every day, at about 3pm, I would get the urge to walk to the office cafeteria, buy a cookie, then eat it while chatting with coworkers.

Identifying the reward was more challenging, though. Was it the sugar rush from eating a delicious cookie? A break from work? So, I ran some experiments. One day, I ate an apple to see if that tamed the craving. The next, I took a break by walking around the block. Pretty soon, I figured out that the best part of getting a cookie was chatting with coworkers. That social interaction was the reward.

As you set out to change a bad habit or build a new one, think of yourself as both scientist and subject. Study your habit first. Get clear on the possible cues and rewards that are reinforcing your habit loop. Then go to work on changing your behavior.

Engineer Your Environment

Once you know what your cues and rewards are, you can swap routines. In my case with the cookies, I kept the cue of 3pm, but instead of my usual routine of buying a cookie, instead I walked to a colleague’s desk and chatted for a few minutes. And the reward stayed constant: social connection and a break from work. The cookie urge disappeared.

Isolating cues and rewards aren’t just useful for changing a bad habit. You can use it to build new habits, too. The writer Maya Angelou developed the habit of writing every day by paying for a hotel room. In the room she kept a dictionary, the Bible, and Roget’s Thesaurus. She forbade housekeeping from the room, and asked that all decorations be removed. Every morning at 6:30, she drove to her hotel room and wrote until mid-afternoon. She would then return home and enjoy a proper dinner in the evenings. Then she’d repeat.

In effect, Maya Angelou had engineered her environment—implementing helpful cues while removing herself from the distracting ones—to prompt the routine of writing. And for years, she kept a bottle of sherry in the room, and she’d give herself a reward after she’d finished a particularly tough bit of writing.

You can do the same thing. If you’re trying to build the habit of doing yoga every morning at 5am, for example, you might keep your yoga mat at the foot of your bed. Lock your smartphone in a kitchen drawer instead of on your nightstand so you’re not tempted by it.

And reserve your cup of coffee or tea—or a nice rewarding smoothie!—until after your Downward Dog and Triangle Pose. That’s your reward. And over time, you’ll find it easier and easier—more habitual—to stretch every morning.


Finally, keep experimenting until the routine sticks. Changing habits is tough. Failing the first or even the second time doesn’t mean you’re incapable of change. Rather, it means you are making progress, and you are learning something from your experiment. Look again at your cues and rewards. If you forget to do your new routine, chances are the cues aren’t noticeable enough. If you remember to do your new routine but aren’t motivated, ask if you need a better reward. Even better, delay gratification of the guilty pleasures you already have. Binge on Netflix after your evening bike ride and games with the kids.

Good luck,

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11 thoughts on “How to Turn a Resolution into a Habit”

  1. Sally

    A great book about this is, “Willpower instinct: How self-control works, why it matters, and what you can do to get more of it” as it helps reinforce the strategy outlined above.

    I have this excerpt pasted to my desktop: “Predict how and when you might be tempted to break your vow, and imagine a specific plan of action for not giving in.”

  2. Steven Thomas

    really appreciate the short but very clear discussion on breaking habits down. I read Og Mandinos book the worlds greatest salesman scroll 1 literally over 300 times and though I came to understand that Habit is powerful I have never been really great at the will power thing. Habits last for days or hours not years. My wife makes fun of my many goal failures. Have started exercising and stopped so many times about to mount a traffic light over the stationary bike. Now I am going to look for the cue that will help me get my feet on the floor (not the drill sergeant of years ago but maybe his voice on a recording would work) and build in a reward. I am more than double the body fat I was when the drill sergeant would wake me up and struggling to create a habit of exercise. Will power always seems to fail me when I am working to create a positive habit. Must build cues and rewards that work for me into the future.

    1. Viraj Almeida

      Hey Steven, really appreciate your persistence! Most ppl quit well before where you’ve reached. Keep on and the win you will!

  3. Cathy Clarksen

    Great post. I am going to try this one out and see if I can change a habit by locating the cues and rewards. As a professional coach, my work makes connections to thoughts and feelings.

  4. sandrashill

    Lots of good points in this article! 🙂

    I’ve sometimes been successful for a while in building a good habit using some of these tricks, but my downfall is usually when something beyond my control “breaks” the habit and then I can’t seem to get back into it.

    For example, I had been doing a good job of doing some light cardio exercise (“Walk Away the Pounds” video) five mornings a week for about a year, but then I got a very bad, long bout of sciatica, which forced me to stop exercising (as the pain would get MUCH worse when I did). The sciatica finally subsided several weeks ago, but I can’t seem to restart the exercise routine….I tell myself that I’ll start on x day, but then that day comes and I’m busy or extra tired or it’s a “special” day (no exercising on my birthday!) or whatever. It just feels so nice to NOT have to spend my time on that (and to have the time to get more work done or just be lazy).

    So, are there any extra-special tips on how to get back into a good habit that I’ve broken? Or is it really just a matter of doing the same things that got me into the good habit to begin with?

  5. Reader

    One of the best articles I’ve seen about this topic with clear, steps for a plan.

  6. Justin Hale

    Great article!

  7. Cheryl Becker

    The Power of Habits training has a great tool kit that walks through changing a habit. It helps with self-awareness of cues, routine, reward.

    What helps me with my goals is to be intentional such as my workout gear is next to my bed so I put it on first thing in the morning to workout and I tell others my goals who hold me accountable and support me.

    Also, only have 2 or 3. Don’t overwhelm yourself which will certainly cause failure.

    1. Ryan Trimble

      Thanks, Cheryl. Good tips. I also gained a new awareness of my habits in the course.

  8. Alison Duncombe

    I’ve read the book The Power of Habit many times over and this article has really distilled the basis of it in a very succinct way. I’ve helped myself keep a habit of working out by renting a small locker to keep my workout gear in, at the gym (so I have no excuses about not having it with me), and I go straight to the gym on the way home from work. I found if I went home first, that I never managed to change and go to the gym. This new routine really helped me create a habit of going to the gym.

    1. Ryan Trimble

      Nice, Alison! Good strategy.

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