Your Style Under Stress™ Results

Understanding Your Results

The Style Under Stress assessment measures two areas: Your style under stress, and your dialogue skills.

Your Style Under Stress™ Score indicates how likely you are to move toward silence (masking, avoiding, or withdrawing) or verbal violence (controlling, labeling, or attacking) during a Crucial Conversation. The higher your score in this section, the more likely you are to move to silence and/or violence. Notice which behaviors you resort to in crucial moments.

Your Dialogue Skills Score indicates how well you use the skills taught in Crucial Conversations. The higher your score in this section, the better you are at using the skills. You should pay special attention to any section in which you score zero.

Awareness is the first step toward improvement. Action is the next step. Improve your communication and your results with the skills from Crucial Conversations.

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How often do you move towards silence?

Rarely
Sometimes
Often

Silence Score Breakdown

  • Masking: 0
  • Avoiding: 0
  • Withdrawing: 0

How often do you move towards verbal violence?

Rarely
Sometimes
Often

Verbal Violence Score Breakdown

  • Controlling: 0
  • Labeling: 0
  • Attacking: 0

Dialogue Skills Score

Now look at how well you use the Crucial Conversations skills. If you scored one or two, you're doing alright in this area—at least in the scenario you had in mind when answering the questions. If you scored zero, you should pay special attention to the corresponding chapter in the book—or attend a course.

  • Choose Your Topic (Chapter 3): 0
  • Start with Heart (Chapter 4): 0
  • Master My Stories (Chapter 5): 0
  • Learn To Look (Chapter 6): 0
  • Make It Safe (Chapter 7): 0
  • STATE My Path (Chapter 8): 0
  • Explore Others' Paths (Chapter 9): 0
  • Retake Your Pen (Chapter 10): 0
  • Move to Action (Chapter 11): 0

*Note: Some early copies of the third edition of Crucial Conversations contained an error in how the assessment was scored. We apologize for any confusion this may have caused.

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